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TurboNG
02-24-2011, 10:25 AM
Well Monday night my Oldest Brother took his own life. He had some medical issues and a lot of family and mental issues. He tried to deal with them for over a year and during that time was having counseling and weekly appointments with a psychologist(SP?). He lost the fight and shot himself leaving two boys a wife, two brothers, 1 sister and 9 nephews and cousins, & his mother and Father.
I know Life is hard at times and difficult to deal with. He had money, cars, a house, and a very loving family. These things don't make happiness. He will be dearly missed but never forgotten.
I have chose to write this in hopes that it will trigger a reality in everyone hearts that life is to short to be angry at someone, not spend time with someone, or just plain choose not to be a part of someone's life. I spent as much time as i could with my brother and i am great full I had those times, i couldn't live with myself if i had not had those good times. Living with thoughts of i wish i had spent more time with him would have prob killed me. I thank God i had the time with him that i did. We never know when we are going to lose some one, "Tomorrow is promised to no man!", so please make amends, spend the time, and tell those you love how you feel.
I LOVE YOU BRO!
Stangman
02-24-2011, 10:40 AM
Wow.
Very sorry for your loss Dave.
Cant think of anything to say really, except I agree with everything you said.
Hang in there buddy.
:angel:
skeptiq
02-24-2011, 10:41 AM
Sorry to hear that... Thoughts and prayer with you and your family.
Hang in there.
Ben
Pops Fun
02-24-2011, 10:49 AM
Thanks for the post, Thoughts and Prayers.
CNTLOSE
02-24-2011, 10:51 AM
Sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. I lost my brother 6 years ago and it is one of the hardest thing to deal with.
Steves LX
02-24-2011, 11:17 AM
I'm sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Maximus
02-24-2011, 11:21 AM
Sending prayers to the ones left behind.
kennebellcobra
02-24-2011, 11:21 AM
Sorry for your loss! Nice post, thoughts and prayers for the family.
Timido
02-24-2011, 11:37 AM
I am sorrey for your loss. That had to be tough
Wow...thoughts and prayers sent your way!
1987coupe
02-24-2011, 11:37 AM
Sorry for your loss, dont know what i would do if i lost my brother, thoughts and prayers for you and the family.
plated
02-24-2011, 11:38 AM
sorry for your losses,i understand how your feeling,my grandpa did the same thing a couple yrs ago took everyone off gaurd,and just left us questioning why why why... we just thought he's in a better place now:angel:
2Kblacksleeper
02-24-2011, 12:00 PM
Again sorry for you and your families loss.
Thoughts and prayers sent.
John.
DeckerEnt
02-24-2011, 12:40 PM
Thoughts and prayers to you and the family.
bbfstanger
02-24-2011, 12:48 PM
damn thats just terrible,best wishes for the remaining family.
DSSKing68
02-24-2011, 01:08 PM
Thanks for sharing...sometimes life gets the best of people. Mental illness is a horrible thing.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
03z06vette
02-24-2011, 01:11 PM
Prayers and thoughts to you and yours..
cobra429boss
02-24-2011, 01:12 PM
Sorry for your loss . I had a ladie at my dads work shot her self.. She was 43 years old and found out that she had melanoma cancer, She fought it for a little while then doctors told her they wasnt much they could do for her so she went home and blowed her brains out. Leaving a lot of family behind.. Sad but true..
draggin50
02-24-2011, 01:38 PM
Damn man... Sorry to hear that. Thoughts go out to you and your family.
NO SHOT
02-24-2011, 01:43 PM
Sorry for your loss Dave....We will pray for you and your family.It must be hard but hold strong to the good memories......:(
JET50213
02-24-2011, 02:00 PM
Wow, sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you and your family!
tdm309
02-24-2011, 02:53 PM
My wife and I are very sorry to hear about your loss Dave. We will have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers
Blowpastyou
02-24-2011, 03:16 PM
Sorry to hear Dave. I lost my best friend Aaron almost 2 years ago, he was like a brother.... I still dont believe it till this day... Best wishes.
Kwik92GT
02-24-2011, 07:15 PM
Just wow. Very sorry for your loss. Couldn't imagine losing my bro. Thoughts and prayers to all involved.
93whitenotch
02-24-2011, 07:15 PM
Damn! Really sorry to hear of you and your families loss. My condolences to you and your family. Glad to hear that you can look back and have no regrets cause you spent time with him and that's all that matters. It sucks that this is the outcome, but keep your head up.
mustanger
02-24-2011, 07:16 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss :angel:
chad393na
02-24-2011, 07:17 PM
Sorry for your loss Dave, thoughts and prayers to those left behind.
93snake
02-24-2011, 07:22 PM
Sorry about your loss, in thoughts and prayers.
bronzeLX
02-24-2011, 07:32 PM
Sorry for your loss, I understand how you feel. Lost a very close friend the same way many years ago, still miss him. Sending prayers.
Very sorry to hear. You are right though. Growing up me and my dad didnt get along to well but here lately I have been trying to see him and mom more and not argue with him as much.
Johnny O
02-24-2011, 11:06 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family :angel:
mustang8998
02-25-2011, 09:49 PM
Prayers sent.....
TurboNG
02-27-2011, 05:01 PM
Thank You Everyone...
graysonracin
02-27-2011, 06:18 PM
Best wishes to everyone involved, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
02mingryGT
02-28-2011, 01:05 PM
Sorry for your loss.
firestang70
02-28-2011, 03:39 PM
So sorry to hear this. Prayers for you and your family.
TurboNG
03-02-2011, 01:09 AM
Well i'm at lost for words.... My brother's wife's father just died today from a heart attack. Yes the same one that just lost her husband... He was a great friend of the family and will also be dearly missed....
R.I.P. TOM........
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