dead bets

[mustangkuhn90lx]

i know that alot of people think that there are alot of dead bet dads. i'm sorry no one talks about the dead bet moms that what to just put there kid on other people. Then they run around with a different man every day then instead of spending time with there kid when they get off of work they go get drunk off of money they get from people so they can put gas in there car. i'm so sick of people saying that dads are always the dead bets bull this girl is driving me insane. i wish that she would take care of her kid not her drinking. Ok i'm done just need that off my chest thanks

[mustangrfast88]

well put bro i know what you mean

[NUTTSGT]

beat not bet

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

i know that alot of people think that there are alot of dead bet dads. i'm sorry no one talks about the dead bet moms that what to just put there kid on other people. Then they run around with a different man every day then instead of spending time with there kid when they get off of work they go get drunk off of money they get from people so they can put gas in there car. i'm so sick of people saying that dads are always the dead bets bull this girl is driving me insane. i wish that she would take care of her kid not her drinking. Ok i'm done just need that off my chest thanks

Dude you and me are literally in the exact same F'in boat. My boy spent this weekend at home with me instead of with his mother because it's her birthday and she's out partying.


Whatever you do....don't ever rag on her to your kids. Let her be who she is and let your kids figure it out on their own. This worked for me. My dad is a F'in loser and never put out an effort to be there for his 3 sons. My mother never said a word about him that degraded him. She just let the truth come out and it DID. This is my plan with my son and his mother. He will eventually come to realize that she is never there for him, dad is always by his side and his step mom loves him and cares more about him than his mother does and that'll pay off in the end. You can't tell this to a child, they think the world of their parents until they're old enough to understand the truth.

[mustangkuhn90lx]

ok i am not saying my girl it is a friend a i don't say nothing bad around the kid. i can't wait for the day for him to look at her and say where have you been my whole life and for him to tell her off. Oh and for all the F'in english teachers out there stay off my A$$ i didn't rant on here to hear your A$$e$ say something about my spelling find someone that wants to be corrected i don't give a $hit about it

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

yeah FUCK grammer :rockon:

[Mista Bone]

to hell with commas and periods as well!!!!!!

85_SS_302_Coupe, you are right, the kids will figure it out. I got my son every weekend that I could. About 46 out of 52 weekends a year.

I later found out that one of the weekends I had to work at last minute, my ex a;ready had plans and she had to drag our son along. Basically he was 6-7 and left in the living room with his Game Gear to play while watching TV while she was banging someone.

Turns out it was after she'd split the BF we split over. The guy she was banging, is the brother of the trailer park manager where we lived. She ended up marrying (3rd husband) the trailer park manager!!!!!

You can't make that crap up!!!!

[Yellow98Cobra]

to hell with commas and periods as well!!!!!!

85_SS_302_Coupe, you are right, the kids will figure it out. I got my son every weekend that I could. About 46 out of 52 weekends a year.

I later found out that one of the weekends I had to work at last minute, my ex a;ready had plans and she had to drag our son along. Basically he was 6-7 and left in the living room with his Game Gear to play while watching TV while she was banging someone.

Turns out it was after she'd split the BF we split over. The guy she was banging, is the brother of the trailer park manager where we lived. She ended up marrying (3rd husband) the trailer park manager!!!!!

You can't make that crap up!!!!


JERRY...JERRY....JERRY!

[Squale iii]

to hell with commas and periods as well!!!!!!

85_SS_302_Coupe, you are right, the kids will figure it out. I got my son every weekend that I could. About 46 out of 52 weekends a year.

I later found out that one of the weekends I had to work at last minute, my ex a;ready had plans and she had to drag our son along. Basically he was 6-7 and left in the living room with his Game Gear to play while watching TV while she was banging someone.

Turns out it was after she'd split the BF we split over. The guy she was banging, is the brother of the trailer park manager where we lived. She ended up marrying (3rd husband) the trailer park manager!!!!!

You can't make that crap up!!!!

trailer park eh?

[orange01gt]

LMAO. this is some funny shit. sorry

[dynawideglide01]

Your right,you never hear about the mom til there arrested for a dui or something with the kids in the car,It's like the dad is the only one capable enough to hold down a job and pay for everything.It works both ways.The problem is the fact that 80% of the time the mom gets custody,if dad happens to fall on hard times and get behind on child support he's labeled a dead beat.And I totally agree to let the kids figure that shit out on there own because believe me as a father of 3 they always figure shit out.If you talk bad about there mother or father they may resent you until they do figure it out.

[Mista Bone]

trailer park eh?

in Madeira :)

My son lives there.......and I'm thinking of moving back there......it is close to my courier route.

He's more into racing than I am, and the ex always complained about it. She has always hated that I've gotten along with her 2nd and 3rd husbands, who were around my son more than me.

She made the mistake to cheat, doesn't mean I have to hate her next husbands.

Sadly she is now legally blind so no more running around.

[big cheif]

Same here. my lady gets mad when i dont cuss and scream at my ex. I just told her " let the snake bite it's own head off ". I don't ever talk shit in front of christy about her mom. she found out what her moms true colors really are. I can see it upsets her really bad that her mom is a low life, but carrie and I are ALWAYS there for her and she respects that.

[BigBadStang]

yeah FUCK grammer :rockon:


It's actually grammar.
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:rofl::rofl::rofl:

[DeckerEnt]

I have a story and a half but the divorce is just getting started so I will wait till it is all over.

[Dirtyd0g]

A really good buddy of mine paid child support on his daughter until she was 18. She lived with him the entire time. His ex wife took him to court every year to get the amount raised. Every time he tried to fight it because his daughter lived with him, her mother was a worthless druggie. When he asked his daughter to go to court to help him she moved back in with her mother for a week or 2. Then when court was settled and he lost she came back crying about how terrible it was at her moms because there was never anything to eat,etc..... it was his daughter so he felt sorry for her and let her move back in. I always told him to tell her no, but it is easier to say that than to actually do it.
Alan

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

It's actually grammar.
:lol::lol::lol:
:rofl::rofl::rofl:

Sometimes the beauty of my posts takes a bit of paying attention to get the funny part out but if you're careful you just might pick it up...lol

[Blackout]

well, I will let you know a little about my life..... As a couple of people on here know, I am a foster parent and have been for more than 5 years now. I have shared my home with alot of kids that have been mentally and physically abused.

The reason for me posting this is because one of my previous foster kids that the county has reunited with the birth mother (he and his 3 siblings were in care under my roof and all reunited) and is now probably coming back into the system. He came over my house the other day (he 15 years of age) with large welts covering his head and body and a couple of bad scrapes/cuts. I finally broke him down enough to tell me what happened and appearently he got into an arguement with his mom because he wouldn't watch the kids while she went out and partied, (she is pregnant also) and out of a drunken rage she beat him with a Computer Extention Cord. Well as a mandated reporter, I had to call the law. I was proud of him for man-ing up and telling the cop that he didn't want to live there any more and he told the cop what she did. I just can't believe he didn't do anything back to her to get her off him, but I am proud of him for not touching her. I told him that with that action "he was the man" because he controlled his self.

At this time and forever he knows what his mother did and what she is. He may love her, but as all kids will figure out for them selves sooner or later is who takes care of them and who loves them with the compasion that they deserve. (and YES she went to jail for domestic violence, wich is her second in the last 2 years and charged with child endangerment for being high and drunk.)

So when you say DEAD BEAT MOMS.......I see this every day! But yes Dead beat Dads are a problem too. The boy I'm talking about father is in Prison serving a 15 year sentence.

[redfirepearlgt]

I witnessed a mother whjo had her 14 year old daughter with her the other morning in a coffee shop talking about how she let her husband know that is was to propose (when they were dating) he better pick a rock for a ring if he expects her to say yes. The conversation switched as I was leaving to her saying that she does "nothing fo free." Another guy there says something about $50, blah, blah, blah, and right in front of her daughter she states, "Yeah, I've done it for about that, in fact I have many times likely done it for a lot less." You could tell by looking at this woman she is "high maintenance", lives up the road in Amberly Village, and has gotten ahead in life as a big diarhea of the mouth flirt. She is really teaching her daughter some real classy pointers on getting ahead. My only guess why she is still married (don't know how may times) is because he still brings home the bacon, based on the way she carries on. She is a regular there and while her flirty, self absorbed personality is nothing new, I could not believe she would carry on like this in front of her daughter. needless to say, I had to comment to the daughter, "Are you taking good notes on Mom's tips?" That got me a glare, and I glady took it staring back as I left the shop.

So you wonder where they learn it? Mothers like this, Romance novels (which never get the publicity of porn but are equally to blame for marriage break ups), and crap TV shows like "Real Housewives of "_ _ _", and Sex in the City.

That's my two cents worth. Of course its all the white man's fault. We caused it all.

[inferno50]

i have had a long experience in court and all i can say is do whatever you can to fight for your kids. i am 24 and i will soon have full custody of my kid. no unsupervised visitation from his mom. she is a complete piece of shit, doesnt care about her kid and left him with people who did bad and i do mean very bad things to him, as a few people on here know.i hope a very long jail sentence comes fron all this for them. child protective servises is very involved. i dont really want to go into details. all i can say is it is good to see other concerned parents on here who really care about their kids. hold your head up and be strong man. do what you can to be a good dad and protect your kid. please wish me luck although i dont think i will need it the big court date is on the 22 of this month.

[inferno50]

by the way on the dead beat thing his mom owes me 10k in back medical and all that junk.can you say contempt? coming soon.