isnt there an unwritten law...

[Bluecrew07]

Maybe its just me but isnt there like an unwritten law among guys that you dont date the others ex????? Maybe im wrong...maybe your supposed to share..

[k062693w]

What difference does it make ??? If she's an EX, Then the relationship came to an END !!! ( and not because you were best friends LOL)
So it shouldn't matter who she dates !!!

And look on the Bright side, You can always rib your buddy about you Hitting it before him !!! LMAO

[thecollector]

I am a violater of this law, though I did ask permission twice (both sober) and wait 4 months before doing ANYTHING. That was 6+ years ago and me and her are still together.... Something must have been right.

[facemelter71]

Ill allow it!!! Its my ex,go for it.

[firestang70]

Josh maybe you should get back at her then and post nudes of her on the website. Or I can pm you my email address.

[Mr.Moontang]

Josh maybe you should get back at her then and post nudes of her on the website. Or I can pm you my email address.


That is a great idea!!!

[e5shea]

Absolutely fair game.

[fst 5pto]

I am going against the contrary and say it is against man law. An ex-girlfriend is off limits when it comes to friends.

[347sc]

A true friend would not do that. So I say a nut shot is not out of the question.

[Bluecrew07]

That is a great idea!!!
Sorry scott wrong ex lol but nice try hahaha.

[Bluecrew07]

A true friend would not do that. So I say a nut shot is not out of the question.
Yeah we not friends anymore. Honestly I dont care about her its just the fact that he is supposed to be my frined and you just dont date your friends ex. If we wasnt friends i wouldnt care

[Dirtyd0g]

You can have my ex if you want. I'll warn you she is violent and crazy.

[Bluecrew07]

You can have my ex if you want. I'll warn you she is violent and crazy.
SO is mine which makes it even more weird that he with her now. He always said she was crazy

[Markcore]

Maybe its just me but isnt there like an unwritten law among guys that you dont date the others ex????? Maybe im wrong...maybe your supposed to share..

I'm with you man, OFF LIMITS! Just all around bad news. No longer friends with 2 longtime friends for this very same reason. Theres so many girls out there, why cause problems by going after a friends ex? :confused: I feel that a true friend would realize that. :rolleyes:

[jlt2006]

You're not in F'ing high school anymore. Get over it.

Friends come and go, good friends stick with you.

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

Fair game but still kind of a dick head move.

[87poopcoupe]

according man law #56241.1 you would have to show a pic, thus determining if just cause in warranted in this scenario.

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

I went to school with this guy, was a pretty good friend growing up. It seemed like every gf i left he went straight after. He got 3 of my ex's. That pretty much did it for our friendship. How can you hang out with a dude who's nailing someone you were in a serious relationship with? How can you sit and shoot the shit about women and relationships and that kind of thing when he's with your ex? To me the kind of guy who would do that wants ass more than he wants your friendship.

[Pitbull1052]

To me that's more of a chick rule....... I think as long as it isnt family (the guy going after your ex) then it's fair game.. once I'm done I'm done........ and if he thinks he can come behind me and knock it out of the park then more power to him..... but you're right Markcore "I feel that a true friend would realize that"

[Blackpony]

Just think of it as he's got your sloppy seconds.

[KobraII]

I try to adhere to the rule of "Don't date your friend's ex's", but I did break it once. But, no harm, no foul. Only thing that came of that relationship was that now me and my good friend can talk about how nuts our ex is, haha

[1992MustangDW]

I have a really good friend. The day after I broke up with her she started seeing him. We have alot of good times saying what in the hell was we thinking. Do you remember when? lol. But that BITC* was crazy!

[Waffles]

The rule is "Bros before hos." If it causes a problem with the friendship, then it's off-limits.

In this case, I would find myself in a definate quandary. I'd be torn between doing your ex to piss you off, and not wanting to touch any girl you've been in.

[pegasus]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88nAlb0qP5E
man law

[1badasp]

Bro's before Ho's

[5.0calypso93lx]

Speaking from personal experience.... nothing good ever comes of it. Something seems to always go wrong no matter how careful you are.

[RIXXX93GT]

Theres no law against it but to me it shows poor taste.

[black90lx]

imo. if a guy dates an ex they wanted to fuck her when you 2 were together and they looked at her more than a friend. i can bet they flirted around without you realizing it. there is one of my old friends that fucked around with 2 of my ex's, i told him he must like my sloppy seconds... lol

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

Yeah just remind him where her mouth has been

:lol:

[Bluecrew07]

We have been friends forever it seems like 6th grade. he knows everything me and her went thru and how crazy she is. Guess he just has to find out the hard way even tho its been in plain sight forever

[k062693w]

Just sit back and when it goes to $hit you can use the Dr. Phil line and ask " How's That Workin' For Ya ???" LMAO

[Mista Bone]

after he hits it, mention that she gave you a STD.......watch him freak.

[Bluecrew07]

after he hits it, mention that she gave you a STD.......watch him freak.
Hahahahaha about that.......he is the one with one:lol: cant wait til she finds out hahahahaha.........Filth!

[winner70ta]

I am a violater of this law, though I did ask permission twice (both sober) and wait 4 months before doing ANYTHING. That was 6+ years ago and me and her are still together.... Something must have been right.
That was the proper way to do things. Had a guy at work several years ago ask me if it was okay to date one of my ex-girkfriends. He was really cool about it and I said go ahead. A year later they go married.
Think about it this way; you hang with people who share same interests as you do. When people connect and have a relationship they really are finding out about it each other of what they like and don't like. Maybe you and the girl don't workout from some differences. But, your friends are often enough like you that the chick may find a better match-up with them. Nothing to be taken personal.

[Mista Bone]

Like my exwifes third husband, he has the same likes as me.......never bothered me.

I cut ties and moved on. If I need help, I don't hesitate to call either, they do the same.

[blown86lx]

I dont think there is a law persay, but you should always ask! If it is gonna create beef beetween two friends seems kinda dumb to me. But I think it is a good idea that you ask first,and if they do it anyway doenst seem like that good of a friend to be loosing anyway. :flipoff:

[MrsAPE]

Friends come and go, good friends stick with you.
Like glue!!! :D

And my 2 cents here. I think it depends on the ex. Aperacer and I are still friends with my ex and he never had a problem with us getting together. Was even the DJ at our wedding!! In fact they work together. And everytime Ape comes in bitchin about me being a bitch he thanks him for taking me!! :lol::lol:

[Bluecrew07]

I dont think there is a law persay, but you should always ask! If it is gonna create beef beetween two friends seems kinda dumb to me. But I think it is a good idea that you ask first,and if they do it anyway doenst seem like that good of a friend to be loosing anyway. :flipoff:
used to be a good friend then he wasnt there for me when i needed him. I let that go but he just started turning on me. oh well i guess

[maxedout2]

im new on here but it sounds like your more pissed you lost your boyfriend than your ex...just what it sounds like to me..........

[Bluecrew07]

im new on here but it sounds like your more pissed you lost your boyfriend than your ex...just what it sounds like to me..........
Boyfriend????? NO NO NO. my friend yeah he was a good friend. Couldnt care less about her

[beefcake]

Josh maybe you should get back at her then and post nudes of her on the website. Or I can pm you my email address.

lmao :)

[Ryan218]

ex is an ex. part of the past. let him deal with the drama and move on :bigthumb:

[93LXhatch]

man i got a better one for ya me and my fiance just split up about 4-5months ago and we have a 3yo boy and MY COUSIN YES MY COUSIN is trying to get with her behind my back wont talk to me anymore hangout with me anymore NOTHING so dont feel to bad at least he wasnt family

[Foxxx5oh]

man i got a better one for ya me and my fiance just split up about 4-5months ago and we have a 3yo boy and MY COUSIN YES MY COUSIN is trying to get with her behind my back wont talk to me anymore hangout with me anymore NOTHING so dont feel to bad at least he wasnt family


well....you ARE from Dayton............



an Josh, manlaws or not, fuckin a buddy's ex without consent/lettin you know is kinda fucked up, one of my closer friends ended up getting with my ex fiance after i came back home from the Army. she invited me over, so i went, and walk in to find em fuckin on the couch...

[Steves LX]

Yeah just remind him where her mouth has been

:lol:

Yeah that's what I was thinking. The next time you see your buddy Josh ask him how your junk tastes!!!

[Bluecrew07]

Yeah that's what I was thinking. The next time you see your buddy Josh ask him how your junk tastes!!!
hahahahaha i saw him the other day he didnt seem to happy to see me but he did talk to me
Guess they didnt work out lol

[Rob]

ha nice. There are too many girls out there to go for one of your buddies ex's. A true friend would never do that. Off limits IMO.

[Galaxie]

I think the friend would and should stay away from the ex. A true friend is hard to come bye and would generally stay away from shit like that .

[Bluecrew07]

I think the friend would and should stay away from the ex. A true friend is hard to come bye and would generally stay away from shit like that .
Smart guy:bigthumb

[redfirepearlgt]

The only unspoken rule we ever had was that a friend could not date your sister unless you approved. As far as ex girlfriends open season. As far as ex wives go I couldn't tell you. I don't have one. Still on my first.

[Dirtyd0g]

I think the only reason you would care is if you still wanted her.
I guess these things seemed important in high school, but as you grow up it really doesn't matter.
Alan

[shadez14]

I thought it was always an unwritten rule, but people seem to do it anyways. Looking back it's funny now, and I'm better off, but I had the same crap happen to me. I dated this girl when I was 21 and broke up after like 4-5 months. My best friend seemed to disappear off the face of the earth about a month later. So a couple months pass and I run into him. Guess the had been going out about a week or so after I broke it off. So I was like whatever, since I broke things off for a reason. Well sometime passed and I got a newer mustang, and she and I started hanging out again, but just friends. Mind you I had no interest in her at all, but all he could remember were the thing I told him that we had done. So I guess it ate away at him and he didn't trust her around me. Needless to say, he got in my face, threw a punch, and I ducked and he clocked my ex in the face...LOL. Karma! Things kinda worked out from there, and we were ok, just not as close. Well fast forward 6 years later. I'm married for 2 years, and he got married recently and has a kid with another girl. But the best part, the dumb a$$ got my ex's name tatted on his arm, so he has to live it forever. HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! I have ran into her recently and no bad blood between us that I know of (don't care really though ;) )

[Galaxie]

You older guys just remember youre wife started out as a piece of ass and then became you wife . A true buddy should be the same as he started out to be just older and fatter .

[evildriver]

My good friends wouldn't do that to me and I know who those guys are. Now I do know some of my friends that probably would do that to me. IMO I think it depends on the relationship and how serious it was. It would still be weird though.

[07thorobrd]

i thnk in high school probably would have been an issue but its not high school. I am actually getting married in october to one of my friends ex's. we have been together 3 yrs tomorrow and have 2 kids together. the ex thats my friend is actually gonna be in the bridal party. He is getting married next month and im gonna be in his wedding party as well. him,me,his fiance, and my fiance all go out to the bar together and hang out at each others houses. i thnk it really depends on how strong the friendship is and how the previous relationship ended. not to sound to corny or anything but you cant help who you love